Mistress Jay returns for a body positivity episode! Jay and Billy discuss their struggles with body image and self-love.


Online dating: what do you put down for body type? Jay and I battle over the use of the word ‘curvy.’ ‘Curvy’ is being hijacked by fat women everywhere on OKCupid. No. If you’re big and beautiful, then say you’re big and beautiful. Just because you have rolls does not mean they are curves. Jay disagrees with me.

Jay shares about her experience participating in a talk show’s on-air weight loss challenge. Come on, Hollywood. Ya can’t let a girl keep a $20 scale?!

This week’s episode is actually sponsored by Hot Octopuss. Buy a PULSE for yourself or a man in your life with the promo code Whore20 for 20% off your purchase.

Join Billy at What The Float on Nov. 1. Get your tickets now before they go up. Just $10.

So many wonderful things to share with you. For more on body image, body positivity, weight and sex, check out these Big Love Links:

Billy’s struggle with disordered eating on xoJane.
XL Love by Sarah Varney
Health at Every Size |
Gabi Fresh |
Pretty Girl Glam |
Regini |
/r/Chubby (NSFW)


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