No Hetero! Lesbian Bars, Coming Out, and Kissing Boys

Asher is a lesbian. She’s known all her life. That’s why when we made out in a gay bar, she abruptly ran away when she felt some tingles and jingles. “I kissed a boy—no hetero!” I catch up with Asher to talk about the demise of lesbian bars and coming out to her not-so-thrilled grandmother. We also contemplated how much money it would take for either of us to suck a dick. Penises? Gross! ALSO: what goes into a great Craigslist ad? I’ve got the answers on this week’s Manwhore Podcast!

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Kimchi Cuddles on Relationship Anarchy, Polyamory, and Hippy Communes

Tikva Wolf, a.k.a. Kimchi Cuddles, is a mega-talented cartoonist. Her first book Ask Me About Polyamory is an accessible collection of her comics about polyamory, queer issues, and gender. She’s a relationship anarchist who will tell you how she started with poly and ended up bucking the identity politics attached to it. “There’s very few bombs involved in relationship anarchy.” Notice she didn’t say no bombs…ALSO: I advise a couple on how to better enjoy their local sketchy sex party!

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