ADVICE: Oblivious mistress feels lonely

Hi Billy!

I’ve been listening for a while and I have a kind of unusual issue. I hope you might be able to offer some discrete male insight.

I started listening to you and Dan Savage last year, which was great. It encouraged to me open up communications with my partner of 5+ years.  I love him dearly and was ready to commit long-term but I was finding myself seriously desiring sex with other men (I’ve been prone to cheat in past long-term relationships). So I sat him down for the “monogomish” convo him and we agreed to open up the relationship sexually and set some basic rules— basically nothing at home, don’t let it impact our time together and safe sex.

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