Feminist Killjoy Kitty Stryker on Fat Chicks and Call-Out Culture

Kitty Stryker is a feminist killjoy—and her tattoo will be the first to let you know it! “If I watched stand-up comedy, I would break my laptop in half,” the queer activist and writer says. Kitty joins me for a lively discussion about call-out culture and modern feminism. We agree that it’s important to do more than just shout and be angry. That’s why she’s writing a ‘zine titled “So You Got Called Out” to show what to do after you’ve been force-fed pages upon pages of feminist theory. Because action is important. And Kitty Stryker is all about action. Enjoy some lively debate—with some light-hearted talk about cannibalism—on an all-new Manwhore Podcast!

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No Hetero! Lesbian Bars, Coming Out, and Kissing Boys

Asher is a lesbian. She’s known all her life. That’s why when we made out in a gay bar, she abruptly ran away when she felt some tingles and jingles. “I kissed a boy—no hetero!” I catch up with Asher to talk about the demise of lesbian bars and coming out to her not-so-thrilled grandmother. We also contemplated how much money it would take for either of us to suck a dick. Penises? Gross! ALSO: what goes into a great Craigslist ad? I’ve got the answers on this week’s Manwhore Podcast!

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Will Miles on Exposing Your Ignorance, Being Inclusive, and Paying for Your Porn

Comedian Will Miles is a modern man. He pays for his porn; he respects politically correct vocabulary; and he hosts a podcast with his girlfriend optimistically titled Hopefully We Don’t Break Up! For a year and a half they’ve stayed together to talk about dating and relationships. It’s like this podcast if someone had been willing to love me back!

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Sexual Maturity and Social Justice

Polyamory takes work. That work becomes a lot more difficult when you or your partner is dealing with mental illness. Kat returns to The Manwhore Podcast after a wonderful appearance on episode 19. But as the Senate Republicans shove through a health bill that will make access to mental health services out-of-reach for millions of Americans, Kat worries about finding a therapist who accepts her situation as polyamorous, a former sex worker, and a depressive.

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Doll Sex, Stranger Play, and Making Babies

Jessie met me on a street corner a couple of years ago. We exchanged no words. She led me to her apartment door, gave me a kiss, and took me inside for speechless sexuals. So if we learned anything, it’s a good idea for Billy to keep his big mouth shut! My polyamorous guest gives some surprising answers as to why we didn’t work out romantically. There’s also a lot of wild fetish talk. Do you identify as a Raggedy Ann or a Power Ranger?!

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Sex Expert Tyomi on Black Sexuality, Nebraska Gonorrhea, and more!

Sex expert Tyomi (America’s Next Top Model, Tosh.0) knows there aren’t a lot of sex-positive black voices in the sex education world. She would think to herself, “There isn’t anybody I can relate to. Well, I guess I’ll be that person!” The self-taught sex coach has taken YouTube by storm with viral videos such as Riding The North Face. Tyomi joins me to discuss black sexuality and our country’s lack of sex education. Don’t wanna end up with that Nebraska Gonorrhea!

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Risk! podcast’s Kevin Allison talks Super Secret Gay Kink Camp

Kevin Allison can’t tell you how to get into super secret gay kink camp. But he can tell you all about it! The Risk! podcast host joins me this week as my “manwhore of Christmas future.” Kevin talks all about consent in gay culture and how the sex scene of New York City has changed drastically since he moved here in the ‘90s. “Giuliani destroyed sexual culture in New York City!” ALSO: Willow Wonder talks about her naked yoga studio Naked in Motion!

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What is ethical herpes disclosure?

Repeat after me: “I probably have herpes. I probably have herpes and it’s totally fine. I probably have herpes and it’s totally fine and I’m not going to die!” Herpes probably has the most unfair stigma of all the crotch rots out there. At the end of the day, it’s a skin condition that comes with an awkward conversation. Dr. Sarah returns to The Manwhore Podcast to debate ethical disclosure practices. Yes, I have the hubris to debate a doctor about medical stuffs.

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Dr. Timaree Leigh: A Bisexual in Nebraska

Dr. Timaree knew she was bisexual at a very young age. “Sometimes Barbies would date other Barbies. And sometimes they’d date Kens,” she shares on this week’s Manwhore Podcast. “It didn’t occur to me that that wouldn’t make sense.” The Sex With Timaree host discusses growing up queer in Nebraska and how she became a ‘doctor of sex’ (she holds a PhD in human sexuality from Widener University). ALSO: men fearing false rape allegations might be a good thing!

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13 Reasons Why, Sex Party Custody, and Sensitive Doms

Netflix’s hit series 13 Reasons Why brings me back to darker times of my life. I can’t say I never thought about the painlessness of not existing. But I can say that I made it out of the pack. I made it through where I maybe wasn’t supposed to. Take that, Darwin! This week’s Manwhore Podcast starts on a somber note as I share raw emotions, the final credits rolling down my television screen.

Things pick up when I get to my guest Melanie, a fellow alumnus of Reddit’s infamous /r/RandomActsOfMuffdive. We discuss what it’s like asking a stranger on the internet to come to a coffee shop and lick your bean! After a literally well-reviewed encounter (she actually wrote a Yelp-style customer feedback post), I ask her why we only hooked up that one time. Closure! Tears! Weird stuff about fetishes! Don’t miss this one and download today (although you can totally download whenever…it’s the internet so it’s not like you have to operate on my schedule).

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