Jon Birger on Date-onomics, Divorce Rates, and the Man-deficit

Have you considered dating a plumber? Jon Birger crunched the numbers. Ladies, it’s not you: it’s the ratio! Okay, it could still totally be you, but Birger’s book Date-onomics debunks the 50% divorce rate, tells professional women why New York City is a terrible place to date, and suggests being more open-minded about online dating filters. Shout out to my fellow numbers nerds on this one!

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Love, as told by the Women Who Wouldn’t Love Me

Happy Valentine’s Day, whores! This week’s episode explores life’s oldest emotion: Love. And who better to hear from than the women who wouldn’t love me! Thank you to all of the women who made the monstrous mistake of making out with me many moons ago for taking the time to record once again.

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Kimchi Cuddles on Relationship Anarchy, Polyamory, and Hippy Communes

Tikva Wolf, a.k.a. Kimchi Cuddles, is a mega-talented cartoonist. Her first book Ask Me About Polyamory is an accessible collection of her comics about polyamory, queer issues, and gender. She’s a relationship anarchist who will tell you how she started with poly and ended up bucking the identity politics attached to it. “There’s very few bombs involved in relationship anarchy.” Notice she didn’t say no bombs…ALSO: I advise a couple on how to better enjoy their local sketchy sex party!

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Diana Adams: Polyamorous Family Planning and Group Mafia Marriage

Polyamory advocate Diana Adams is changing the way you plan your family. When same-sex marriage was up for debate, critics said, “What’s next: group marriage?!” Yea, hopefully! Diana Adams Esq., an original founder of Open Love NY, is a pioneer in helping queer, kinky, and polyamorous relationships form families within our legal system. We discuss polyamory, alternative families, and the government’s interest/obsession with your sex life!

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Leah Bonnema seeks Lady Parts Justice!

Leah Bonnema is in a common law marriage. What does that mean? “I think it means he can turn off my respirator,” says the New York comedian and Lady Parts Justice contributor. Bonnema tells me about falling in love with a fellow comedian, how they make it through fights, and how terrifying it is to be a woman in Trump’s America. Her motto? Call your anti-choice congressman…or at least make fun of him!

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Porn Legend Nina Hartley on Dick Size, Nonmonogamy, & Hard Ons!

Porn icon Nina Hartley has helped keep Kleenex’s stock price up for decades. This is the first time I’ve made out with the guest on mic. Honestly, I’m surprised it took this long. The Boogie Nights star teaches valuable lessons on this most special Manwhore Podcast! Hartley addresses dick size insecurity and stresses the difference between porn sex and real sex. Take notes—sexy sex ed is in session!

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Rape Threats, Reddit Sex, & Jailbait

Harassment is not okay. Rape threats are not okay. Violence is not okay. Your average Joe would agree with you, yet there are still so many people on the Internet making rape and death threats at women every day. Andie shares her real and scary interactions both online and in real life on this week’s somber Manwhore Podcast. Also, one listener writes in asking how to ask his girlfriend to be polyamorous despite his history of cheating!

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Paths to Polyamory: Janet Hardy & Dossie Easton (The Ethical Slut)

The Ethical Slut is the book on polyamory and ethical nonmonogamy. Authors Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton join me on an extra special Manwhore Podcast! We discuss their rise to Slut Icon status. I fangirled hard on this episode and was honored to have them on. Enjoy!

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New York City Sex Parties and BDSM Break-Ups

My friend Lilly stopped by The Manwhore Podcast to debrief another successful sex party weekend. For all the lovers of sexy stories, this is the episode for you. Hear how one of my Manwhore Podcast condoms got more action than I did one night!

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Conscious Uncoupling, Polyamory, and Custom Relationships with Effy Blue

This week’s Manwhore Podcast features the fantastic Effy Blue! Effy is an alternative relationships coach here in New York City. She and I agree that each relationship should be customized for the people in that relationship. Excellent episode if you are interested in opening your relationship or learning about nonmonogamous lifestyles! “I’m not here to recruit you—I’m just here to help!” Not much butt stuff on this one, but you’ll get by!

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