13 Reasons Why, Sex Party Custody, and Sensitive Doms

Netflix’s hit series 13 Reasons Why brings me back to darker times of my life. I can’t say I never thought about the painlessness of not existing. But I can say that I made it out of the pack. I made it through where I maybe wasn’t supposed to. Take that, Darwin! This week’s Manwhore Podcast starts on a somber note as I share raw emotions, the final credits rolling down my television screen.

Things pick up when I get to my guest Melanie, a fellow alumnus of Reddit’s infamous /r/RandomActsOfMuffdive. We discuss what it’s like asking a stranger on the internet to come to a coffee shop and lick your bean! After a literally well-reviewed encounter (she actually wrote a Yelp-style customer feedback post), I ask her why we only hooked up that one time. Closure! Tears! Weird stuff about fetishes! Don’t miss this one and download today (although you can totally download whenever…it’s the internet so it’s not like you have to operate on my schedule).

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Open Marriage Puzzles and Professional Sexting

My guest this week is a woman who changed the way I view love, sex, and relationships. What could have been a one-time fling with a swinging MILF visiting NYC turned into a yearslong friendship and flirtation whose energy still remains palpable—and this was the first time I’d seen her in nearly 7 years! She was the first person I’d met who actually practiced some form of nonmonogamy. For the first time, I didn’t feel like I was an immoral, deviant slut demon. Her open marriage stood as my shining, healthy example for years before I’d ever attended a gangbang. A wave of relief washed over me knowing that we can make our own rules and set our own standards. “If you’re showing up to the marriage and you’re showing up to do the work, I’m not jealous.”

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Kimchi Cuddles on Relationship Anarchy, Polyamory, and Hippy Communes

Tikva Wolf, a.k.a. Kimchi Cuddles, is a mega-talented cartoonist. Her first book Ask Me About Polyamory is an accessible collection of her comics about polyamory, queer issues, and gender. She’s a relationship anarchist who will tell you how she started with poly and ended up bucking the identity politics attached to it. “There’s very few bombs involved in relationship anarchy.” Notice she didn’t say no bombs…ALSO: I advise a couple on how to better enjoy their local sketchy sex party!

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Jillian Keenan on Love, Spanking, and Sex with Shakespeare

Jillian Keenan, author of Sex with Shakespeare, talks much ado about pain, but more with love. Keenan’s book explores her spanking fetish through Shakespearean hallucinations. But love is at the core of her memoir. “Love is the process of falling in love over and over again.” For an episode that discusses bare bottoms and bruises, it’s a beautiful conversation about humanity’s oldest emotion. Also: I read a piece I wrote titled The Specter of Someone Else and try not to vomit.

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Masculinity in Trump’s America with comedian Harrison Greenbaum

Harrison Greenbaum is the voice of removing typical gender norms from masculinity. That’s because his voice is not one you’d typically describe as masculine. But I’ve been on enough Tinder dates with his former flames to know he does quite well for himself in the female department! Harrison is what the modern man sounds like: confident, intelligent, and feminist…and maybe a little gay. This is masculinity in the Age of Trump!

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Sex Books Make Penises Soft with Tracey Cox

Tracey Cox is London’s leading sexpert. For over 20 years, she has encouraged more open and honest conversations about sex. We discussed talked about comprehensive sex education, being the cool step-mom, and Cosmo’s ridiculous sex tips. Also, you’ll hear from two porn stars about the dangers of California’s Proposition 60.

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Falling in Love at Orgies

Kailey is back! And yes: she still thinks her brother is hot. Kailey gets tamer in every episode and now she is finally in love! Hear her be gross about the new boyfriend and tell me why I’ve had such a difficult time dating. We also reminisce on our first sex party together…and The Hand Holder.

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The Slut Whisperer Defends Champagne Facials (Kirill Was Here)

Nightlife photographer Kirill Bichutsky has been called many things: Kirill Was Here, the Slut Whisperer, “a gaping maw of misogyny”. His signature champagne facial is popular with beautiful, half-naked women at nightclubs and pool parties, but some think he takes advantage of his intoxicated slutty subjects. Kirill views himself as a war photographer—but with more titties. Listen to our conversation and decide for yourself if this controversial camera man is a problematic party boy!

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Paths to Polyamory: Janet Hardy & Dossie Easton (The Ethical Slut)

The Ethical Slut is the book on polyamory and ethical nonmonogamy. Authors Janet Hardy and Dossie Easton join me on an extra special Manwhore Podcast! We discuss their rise to Slut Icon status. I fangirled hard on this episode and was honored to have them on. Enjoy!

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Ralph Sutton talks Modern Dating & Threesomes

Ralph Sutton is my Manwhore Ghost of Christmas Future! The SDR Show co-host joins me for a rocking Manwhore Podcast. We compare and contrast experiences of dating the modern women of 2016. Feminism: what a concept!

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